Unnamed Fear!
So what does one do when a doctor orders for some tests?
So what does one do when the tests are for your ageing parents?
So what does one do when you wait anxiously for those test results - unnamed fear in the heart and thinking so hard, that you almost will it to be true?
So what does one do when the specialist answers your query and says, "Ummm....it could be malignant, but we're not sure, so we advice you to go for a second test/opinion"
So what does one do when your best friend calls you and conveys her unnamed, unspoken fears?
I didn't do anything! I didn't even know what to say! I babbled. I mouthed cliches about hoping and praying and hanging in there! I think I was incoherent. I think I failed miserably.
I fear I'm hope-less! (But I'm sending out missives to Him, so don't worry pal, let's be hope-full!)
So what does one do when the tests are for your ageing parents?
So what does one do when you wait anxiously for those test results - unnamed fear in the heart and thinking so hard, that you almost will it to be true?
So what does one do when the specialist answers your query and says, "Ummm....it could be malignant, but we're not sure, so we advice you to go for a second test/opinion"
So what does one do when your best friend calls you and conveys her unnamed, unspoken fears?
I didn't do anything! I didn't even know what to say! I babbled. I mouthed cliches about hoping and praying and hanging in there! I think I was incoherent. I think I failed miserably.
I fear I'm hope-less! (But I'm sending out missives to Him, so don't worry pal, let's be hope-full!)
3 Comments:
At 11:05 AM , Psyche said...
I once opened my sympathy speech with an increduous, "Get out of here". And I wasnt even a person who says Gedoutahere!!
Dont be hard on yourself. Its not everyday that you have to deal with having your friends in situations you wouldnt wish on .... on anyone. Its tough to find the right thing to say.
At 12:24 PM , Livin said...
Thanks a ton lady...but yeah, it's one of those awkward moments...and your best friend and devastating for her and what not!
Thanks for leaving a comment on my blog. I checked out yours. Nice.
Keep coming if it interests you.
At 7:12 PM , Irfan said...
Its gonna be alrite...R...Its gonna be alrite.
It always does.
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